"Hi! Wat's your name?" i asked the little gal who was sitting on her mother's lap. she's got this beautiful flawless skin, and typical chinese gal hair with straight short fringe. she looked every bit a normal gal would look like. "Aaagghh, aaaghhh, aaaghhh", was the answer i got before she turned, burying her face into her mom's chest, avoiding my eye contact. i was erm.... speechless for a
moment.
hehehe.... that was my first encounter with an autistic child a year ago. and it gave me a lasting impression.
it's been a month since i started my new job, i am now working with children with learning disability. it's amazing! i'm learning new stuffs everyday, and the children are simply adorable, and i think they are a bunch of funny ppl. yup funny!
during the first week of my job, i was getting used to the idea of working with children. never in my entire 23 years of age have i even given a tot of working with children. me?! teaching kids?! no way!! never!!! if, you would have told me in my schooling days that i may one day do this job, i'll say it's something that my best fren does, not me! wat more, teaching children with learning disability?! O_o"
back to my first encounter with the austistic child a year ago..... i visited the school she attended, which caters to children like her. hmmm..... all i could remember was, not knowing what to do and just stand and gapped at them. i must say i admired the teacher's passion, dedication and love for the children. it takes a certain heart and compassion to do this kind of work, and definately lots of patience, and a great sense of humour!
okay now, back to my first week of work, i was introduced to the school age program kids. these kids comes for 2 1/2 hour class, twice a week, and does scheduled activities with us. OM is a tall lanky gal 8 year old gal, who is very sweet. she likesto offer teachers her biscuit during snack time. then there's HS who's always needing assurance and confirmation from the teacher. she'll stare until she get's your eye contact, and approve that she's doing the right job. oh, she's got an adorable dimpled smile. SK is a funny sweet boy who lacks attention span. it'll be a great success to get him focused for about 10 seconds! oh, and there's this little adorable DR, who's sooo cute, he waddles side to side when he walks. beautiful KW always comes to class feeling sleepy, whose head is too heavy to lift up, and oh her voice barely heard! and there's SY who's always reminding her frens "no touching frens!". we've also got smart bossy NB who likes to take lead, and directing ppl around. JW is a handsome young boy who's in the world of his own, asking many "waaa tis" questions, and favourite colour is green. ZY is a cheeky playful boy, who thinks his fellow classmate looks like chicken little.WX always get excited seeing me, calling me in a hurried voice "teecher jessee, teecher jessee!!" hehehe. i've got so many more kids which i have yet to tell of! and each of them are unique individuals with different personalities. the kids described above are with down syndrome, autism, ADHD, slow learners or just having other kind of learning disability.
oh, i'll never forget these two kids, MZ and NH, from different classes. both happened to throw tantrums on my first week of work!! O_o" it did get me stressed out a bit, but thank God i had the ability to switch if off my brain at the moment. they were just screaming the lungs outs, for good 15 minutes, 'coz they didn't get wat they wanted. sigh! serious dose of patience is definately needed! NH, i call her the predator, hahah, reason being she'll suddenly grab and scratch another child's face. poor HC was a victim, thank God he didn't cry tho. he was in shock! he did whimper a bit after i released her hand. oh, most ppl agree that he does look like chicken little . =P MZ is a smart boy, but has trouble accepting correction, gets really sick and grossed out looking at slimy stuffs and is currently obessed with the edge of the table.
when i first started my job, i did began to wonder why some ppl born like this. as in why can't everyone be born normal. some times i do wonder what goes on in the minds of these kids, esp the ones who are just so into the world of their own.....one thing i realized was that God also made them, and i'm sure He has His purpose. He made them in His image, and these kids were in His mind even before they were conceived. i believe i'll see them in heaven, and God will
explain why. For now.... i see these kids as an opportunity for me to develop characters of compassion, love and patience.
know what? some of this kids are really smart, i get excited knowing they know how to count to 20, or even do simple maths! these kids have some level of understanding, and not entirely blur cases. =P i must say, it has been fun working with them, sometimes i forget that it's work, and i have objectives to meet when teaching them one-on-one. recently i started working with babies with down syndrome group. all of them are adorable little darlings. =) things that we do so naturally like kneeling, crossing barriers, standing up from sitting on the floor, grabbing and dropping objects, these babies need learn it and work
little harder to develop their muscles, and preventing stiff limbs.
i realized that early intervention is really helpful for kids with learning disability. some parents are ignorant to their child's needs, thinking that they could do everything for the child. but once the they've outgrown the cute stage and 10 years down the road, it's not easy having to serve your children's everyday need, like spoon feeding the child, dressing the child?! independence is the key thing that we teach the children. they've got to learn to do basic things on their own, without parent's help. i am so glad that most of the parent whom we work with are very keen to work together with the teachers in teaching their children.
hmmm.... i do wonder..... 20 years on, when these kids have grown up to be young adults, will they fit into the society? can the society accept their uniqueness? will they be given a chance?....
